Somewhere between “men are trash” and “women belong under male control”, the internet lost the plot. That’s the short version. The longer version is that a lot of modern gender talk has started to sound less like honest conversation and more like a cage fight with ring lights. Scroll long enough on TikTok or X and you’ll find men and women being sorted into opposing armies. Every bad date becomes evidence. Every painful divorce becomes a manifesto. Every clumsy comment bec

That means a husband’s headship should carry the weight of love. He is responsible for the spiritual tone, safety, direction, and care of the home. He does not get to demand honour while refusing sacrifice.